Lurie Children’s is dedicated to the health and well-being of children and families. The Heartlight Program expands the mission of the hospital by addressing the needs of families facing loss.
The death of a child is undoubtedly one of the most difficult experiences a person can face in life. The mission of Heartlight, our bereavement program, is to offer support and resources to grieving families when confronted with a loss.
There are no magical words that can erase the pain from the death of a child or a family member, nor is there is a “right way” to go through the grieving process, but we hope that our staff can be a resource and support to you and your family. Heartlight can be reached at 312.227.3930 or firstname.lastname@example.org.
Heartlight is guided by four principles of grief:
Grief is a natural reaction to loss for children and adults
The duration and intensity of grief are unique to each person
Within each individual is the innate capacity to heal oneself; and
Caring and acceptance assist in the healing process
Annual Memorial Service
Every spring, families are invited to participate in Heartlight's Annual Memorial Service dedicated to remembrance and healing. Staff and volunteers join with families to honor the memory and celebrate the lives of the children they have been privileged to serve. If you would like to participate in the 2019 Memorial Service on Saturday, May 4, please download the invitation.
GIPPCC Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter
Heartlight Families: We realize that whether your child died just weeks ago or many years ago, there can be great healing in gathering together with others who have had a similar experience. Many families also express the importance of opportunities to remember and celebrate their child. We want to invite you to participate in the GIPPCC Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter” on Sunday, October 14, 2018, in the Busse Woods Forest Preserves in Elk Grove Village. The 5K Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter will benefit Children’s Hospice and Palliative Care programs in the Chicagoland area. Heartlight and Lurie Children’s will be hosting a table at the event to give you a gathering point and a familiar face for support. Feel free to form a team or we invite you to walk with us!
Familias de Luz del Corazón: Reunirse con otros que han tenido la experiencia de perder a un hijo/a, puede ser una experiencia confortante y brindar esperanza. Comprendemos que el amor por su hijo/a nunca se acabara y muchas familias expresan la importancia de tener oportunidades para recordar y celebrar a su hijo/a. Por lo tanto, queremos invitarles a participar en el GIPPCC Caminata/Carrera de la Mariposa (“Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter”) el domingo, 14 de octubre, 2018 en Busse Woods Forest Preserves de Elk Grove Village. El Paseo/Carrera de la Mariposa 5K beneficiarán programas de niños para los cuidados paliativos en el área de Chicago. Luz de Corazón y Lurie Children’s tendrá una mesa en el evento para darle un punto de encuentro y para que vean caras conocidas y tengan un lugar de apoyo. ¡No dude en formar un equipo o le invitamos a caminar con nosotros!
Heartlight, in partnership with The Bridges Palliative Care Team, is dedicated to enhancing the quality of life for children and their families who are coping with life-limiting conditions. The team is available to meet with families, community organizations, and Lurie Children’s staff for support, education, and assistance when the death of a child is anticipated.
Hope of Heartlight
The Hope of Heartlight program extends bereavement support to families through phone calls and regular mailings about the grieving process, with hopes of helping to guide families through the grief process.
Heartlight facilitates a support group specifically for families who have had a child die. A Parents Group and a Sibling Group meet concurrently at an offsite location. The goal is to provide a safe environment for families to find comfort and understanding by meeting with others who have experienced a similar loss. Following dinner and conversation, parents and children retreat to separate areas, where parents are able to give and receive support from each other, while the children gather in age-specific groups to participate in activities led by Heartlight staff and volunteers to help explore and express their feelings of grief.
The program is offered in English and Spanish. There is no charge to participate in the support groups and they are open to the community.
Intake is required. Please call 312.227.3930 to schedule an intake appointment with Heartlight staff.
Throughout the year, bereaved families are invited to participate in several annual events that are dedicated to promoting remembrance and healing.
Heartlight is available for educational and supportive presentations as well as crisis intervention for medical professionals, community groups, schools and other organizations coping with loss. Presentations about supporting grieving families can be specifically designed for an audience of children, adults, and professionals.
Resources & Referrals
Heartlight maintains an extensive list of resources, bibliographies, and online sites that provide bereavement support. Assistance is also available in finding out-of-state resources.