Bereavement Support

Lurie Children’s is dedicated to the health and well-being of children and families. The Heartlight Program expands the mission of the hospital by addressing the needs of families facing loss.

The death of a child is undoubtedly one of the most difficult experiences a person can face in life. The mission of Heartlight, our bereavement program, is to offer support and resources to grieving families when confronted with a loss.

There are no magical words that can erase the pain from the death of a child or a family member, nor is there is a “right way” to go through the grieving process, but we hope that our staff can be a resource and support to you and your family. Heartlight can be reached at 312.227.3930 or heartlight@luriechildrens.org.

Heartlight is guided by four principles of grief:

  • Grief is a natural reaction to loss for children and adults
  • The duration and intensity of grief are unique to each person
  • Within each individual is the innate capacity to heal oneself; and
  • Caring and acceptance assist in the healing process

GIPPCC Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter

butterfly-run-walk.jpgHeartlight Families:
We realize that whether your child died just weeks ago or many years ago, there can be great healing in gathering together with others who have had a similar experience.  Many families also express the importance of opportunities to remember and celebrate their child. We want to invite you to participate in the GIPPCC Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter” on Sunday, October 14, 2018, in the Busse Woods Forest Preserves in Elk Grove Village. The 5K Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter will benefit Children’s Hospice and Palliative Care programs in the Chicagoland area. Heartlight and Lurie Children’s will be hosting a table at the event to give you a gathering point and a familiar face for support. Feel free to form a team or we invite you to walk with us! 

For additional information please visit butterflyrunillinois.org

Familias de Luz del Corazón:
Reunirse con otros que han tenido la experiencia de perder a un hijo/a, puede ser una experiencia confortante y brindar esperanza. Comprendemos que el amor por su hijo/a nunca se acabara y muchas familias expresan la importancia de tener oportunidades para recordar y celebrar a su hijo/a. Por lo tanto, queremos invitarles  a participar  en el GIPPCC Caminata/Carrera de la Mariposa (“Butterfly Walk/Run & Flutter”) el domingo, 14 de octubre, 2018  en Busse Woods Forest Preserves  de Elk Grove Village. El Paseo/Carrera de la Mariposa 5K beneficiarán programas de niños para  los cuidados paliativos en el área de Chicago. Luz de Corazón y Lurie Children’s tendrá una mesa en el evento para darle un punto de encuentro y para que vean caras conocidas y tengan un lugar de apoyo. ¡No dude en formar un equipo o le invitamos a caminar con nosotros!

Para información adicional por favor visite butterflyrunillinois.org.

Programs & Services

Serious Illness Support

Heartlight, in partnership with The Bridges Palliative Care Team, is dedicated to enhancing the quality of life for children and their families who are coping with life-limiting conditions. The team is available to meet with families, community organizations, and Lurie Children’s staff for support, education, and assistance when the death of a child is anticipated.

Hope of Heartlight

The Hope of Heartlight program extends bereavement support to families through phone calls and regular mailings about the grieving process, with hopes of helping to guide families through the grief process.

Support Groups

Heartlight facilitates a support group specifically for families who have had a child die. A Parents Group and a Sibling Group meet concurrently at an offsite location. The goal is to provide a safe environment for families to find comfort and understanding by meeting with others who have experienced a similar loss. Following dinner and conversation, parents and children retreat to separate areas, where parents are able to give and receive support from each other, while the children gather in age-specific groups to participate in activities led by Heartlight staff and volunteers to help explore and express their feelings of grief.

The program is offered in English and Spanish. There is no charge to participate in the support groups and they are open to the community.

Information on location and dates of the groups:

Heartlight Group Calendar 2018
2335 N. Orchard Avenue, Chicago, IL

Luz del Corazón Calendario 2018
1343 N. California Avenue, Chicago, IL

Intake is required. Please call 312.227.3930 to schedule an intake appointment with Heartlight staff.

Special Events

Throughout the year, bereaved families are invited to participate in several annual events that are dedicated to promoting remembrance and healing.

Speakers Bureau

Heartlight is available for educational and supportive presentations as well as crisis intervention for medical professionals, community groups, schools and other organizations coping with loss. Presentations about supporting grieving families can be specifically designed for an audience of children, adults, and professionals.

Resources & Referrals

Heartlight maintains an extensive list of resources, bibliographies, and online sites that provide bereavement support. Assistance is also available in finding out-of-state resources.

View a list of resources